Kristin - posted on 11/06/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )
My daughters father just recently got married, spur of the moment in Las Vegas. He lives in a different state so does not see her that often, and has not called to tell her. He was engaged as of thanksgiving last year to someone else, they split at some point this spring and then around the time that the summer hit he started pursuing a relationship with me by asking me to move out to his state and in with him as well as asking me to marry him in a text message. When I finally decided that pursuing that wasn't something that I wanted and felt was a good idea it was mid August this year. Now just over 2 months later he gets married on a whim to someone I have never heard of. It doesn't bother me that he's gotten married, good for him now maybe he'll leave me alone., what does bother me is that he hasn't taken his daughter into account for this just like everything else he does. Before this happened I agreed to let him have her for Thanksgiving. Personally I think that he should have been the one to say something to her, and inform her that he was getting married, and in a world where he didn't do it one day in Vegas spur of the moment I would have insisted he did. Now I'm wondering if I should be the one to tell her and if I should even let her go out, since I have no idea where they are living since he also just sold his house and had moved into his parents house right after.