Yvette - posted on 06/15/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hello Everyone, my youngest who will be 21 in the next few days decided to give up his summer job and go stay with his girlfriend for the summer until school starts again. He is a rising senior in college and extremely bright and focused. I am deeply concerned and in pain that this summer could take him off track. The young lady is in college as well and staying on campus in a dorm suite. This concerns me because guest of dormitory visits are not longer than 3 days...therefore; I feel some untruth about this situation. When I ask questions, he gets extremely quiet and the more I ask the more defensive he gets. I want only the best for him and it hurts to feel that this summer may disrupt his focus. It hurts and I do not know what to say or do.