Neighbors Watching Porn with Drapes Open!

FreedomSmellsNice - posted on 10/08/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I am extremely angry and disappointed in my stupid neighbors. I was closing my child's curtains to their bedroom window and I could not believe my eyes! It was like I was in a drive in movie theatre! Thank God my child didn't see it. Background Info: the husband skinny dips, walks around naked in the backyard, and has no problem walking completely naked to the curb to get his Sunday paper. The wife is a school teacher at a prestigious private school. They have 2 daughters (just moved out) and are in their 50's. We have been neighbors for over a decade. Other than going to the hardware store and frosting his windows, I don't know what else to do. They are rude and disrespectful and passive aggressive. Talking will get me nowhere fast. Help!

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What country are you in?
In the US a few years ago, a man was charged with indecent exposure and public nudity because he was walking around naked in his livingroom with the curtains open while children were walking to the bus stop each morning, so all the kids and their parents saw everything every morning. Some of the parents went to the police and the man was asked to stop. He said he had a right to do as he pleased inside his own home and refused to stop, so he was arrested and charged with indecent exposure and public nudity. He lost the case and is now a registered sex offender.
You might have a case if you are in a country where public nudity is against the law. I know some countries allow it though.

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FreedomSmellsNice - posted on 10/09/2013

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Thanks, yes, I am in the U.S. Some people, like them, just don't care. He creeps me out and he has definitely crossed the line several times through the years with me, but I just ignore it. When it could potentially affect my child, that's an entirely different story!

FreedomSmellsNice - posted on 10/09/2013

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I talked to a police officer this morning. I could remain anonymous and it would be a misdemeanor if I report it. I don't want to stir up anything with my crazy neighbors, because they have already gotten worse on their own accord, but I am not going to let it go either. I am going to talk the wife first and let her know politely to please close the drapes during the porn show because of my son. Otherwise, I will give them one more warning and let them know that I am calling the police. I can't believe I have to deal with this. The wife knows about his nudist mentality. She drinks a lot and pretends she's better than everyone else, so clearly she has her head in the sand and is in denial. I wish I could move.

Gena - posted on 10/09/2013

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Does he atleast have something to show off?:-)lol just kidding. I understand you are angry and its not fair that you have to change your windows because of their behavior. I would tell them that the porn has gone to far and that your kids could have seen it and you would appreciate if they do their adult things behind closed doors and windows. Any normal 50year old person should be able to understand that its not apropriate. Are you going to talk to them?

FreedomSmellsNice - posted on 10/09/2013

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That is hilarious! I love your idea. Maybe I should email them and ask them the showtimes and if it will be a double feature and what time I should start popping the popcorn. I am still very angry.

Yes, I most definitely think they are doing it on purpose. I emailed his wife may years ago about our view into their bathroom (shower) and she emailed me back telling me I was funny. So, I frosted and put stainglass-type window coverings on all the windows on that side of the house. This now involves the corner of my house, and their "show" faces my entire backyard.

I've overlooked a lot with them over the years, but this is taking the cake.

Gena - posted on 10/09/2013

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jeee are they doing it on purpous? I would talk to them and tell them that your kids could see what they are watching if they act stupid and keep on doing it i would envite a whole bunch of friends over to stand outside on a sunday or when the porn is on and when he comes out all start clapping and whisteling shouting yeahhhhh like when watching sports and a team makes a goal.Maybe he will feel embarrest after that!
Or let them all point at his ding dong and start laughing.I hope these people are smart enough to let them talk to and change their naked/porn habbits infront of others.

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