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Taylor - posted on 03/04/2014 ( 10 moms have responded )

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Hi, January 10 2014 me and my partner had unprotected sex all night (sorry if it TMI) so I was sure I was bound to get pregnant. So a few days after I had light bleeding around the time I was supposed to get my menstrual, so I start downloaded expecting apps and reading up on pregnancy and more. Plus I had strong pregnancy symptoms all ex kept breast tenderness and actually throwing up it was there but very very low. So I srltart taking pregnancy test I took about 6 and they all came back negative then I said to my self let me wait and see if I get my period. So a few days ago I started bleeding but it was really odd not like my regular cycle.I had no pain except for one night and it was light spotting one day and heavy dark the next and floppy like that.. And when I did cramp the one night it woke me out my sleep feeling like someone waa stabbing me in my stomach and I thought this could be a miscarriage I was so devastated. Throughout all of this I still felt pregnant. I bleed for about 3 days and just stopped now I am cramping much more and all the pregnancy symptoms are getting stronger I feel nausea bad headaches mood swings I get irritated at the slightest things and my belly is really bloated and leg cramps and back aches, I seriously feel like I'm pregnant... .I have to be
Sorry for such a long paragraph but I really need help easing my mind cause this stressing is not healthy,

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/04/2014

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Don't give up, just don't be so expectant next time. Be patient. Plus, most of the fun of pregnancy is conceiving anyway...LOL...so this just gives you more excuses to try!

Ev - posted on 03/04/2014

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And usually their tests are right on the target the first time. Was it a blood test or a urine test? When I found out I was expecting my daughter, they did a blood test. But also do not rely on those so called Apps to tell you anything either. And as for the due dates, those are really guesses and even when they do ultrasounds, those are not concrete dates. Just letting you know that as well. My daughter is currently expecting a second one and they have had 3 ultrasounds and only two that I know of are giving off the same date as a due date. So you can not totally rely on machines to tell you everything.

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Gena - posted on 03/04/2014

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I dont know why you found my post funny because obviously there was something to it,but in anycase.Dont give up,just dont rely on Apps and expect to be pregnant everytime.Just relax about the whole subject.Stressing to concieve isnt the best way.Good luck

Gena - posted on 03/04/2014

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Not to sound rude,but could it be that your body is showing symptoms because you just think you are pregnant?I mean because you are reading apps about how far along you would be.Well i hope the doctor went well and that you got the results you wanted. Good luck

Taylor - posted on 03/04/2014

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I didn't get symptoms till after I had what seemed like the implantation bleeding not the day after, lol

Taylor - posted on 03/04/2014

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I went to the doctor and I got a negative test back she said to wait till I miss my monthly then come back, I have an appointment today at 12:45 so hopefully I get good news

Ev - posted on 03/04/2014

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Yes, but you can not go on that....it sounded like you were experiencing those symptoms a few days later after the unprotected sex. And it does not happen that way. It takes weeks. And if you do not go to the doctor to find out what is really going on you can not go on APPS you download off the phone or on a computer. THey are not accurate at all. You need the advice and care of a doctor.

Taylor - posted on 03/04/2014

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I downloaded this app called "I'm expecting" and its saying I would be 7 weeks and 4 days

Ev - posted on 03/04/2014

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Okay, sometimes it is hard to tell if you are pregnant so soon after having sex one night or even a few more unprotected. Usually you need to wait two weeks after to do a test from Over The Counter to see if you might be. Sometimes it does not even happen. And you do not automatically in the first few days after thinking you might be pregnant have the symptoms of being pregnant including the sore breasts, throwing up, and such because again it takes time for those changes to happen. I can not tell you what the bleeding, cramping and pain and so on was from. You should have gone to a doctor to find out for sure what that was about instead of waiting. You could still go and get checked out and explain to the doc what happened like you did here and they would be more able to tell you what went on. Maybe you also had a weird period too....that can happen.

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