Crystal - posted on 03/30/2015 ( 10 moms have responded )
My boyfriend and I have decided we are going to move in together. I have a 14 year old and a 9 year old. They both love him very much. He has a 4 year old. She loves my girls and me. The thing is where we are right now, his mother and father live right next door. Anytime his daughter is down she throws a fit to be next door. She never wants to be at our house and frankly its like pulling teeth to get her to come home away from her grandparents. We have recently found a house and we are going to be moving soon and his little girl is just not having it. Her mother and soon to be step father are expecting a baby boy and her soon to be step dad has a daughter around her age and this doesnt seen to affect her at all, but when it comes to her dad moving we have come to the conclusion the child just wants to be by her grandparents. We arent moving far just a mile or so but my boyfriend cant talk to her there is no consoling her and she is literally a chaotic mess when you try to do anything with her other than give her what she wants. I need some advice because this has become a serious issue and we close on our new home in a matter of weeks. Also, I dont give my input on how to raise his daughter because of this situation. The mother put her in pageants and has seriously created a child that gets her way with anything and his parents give her anything she wants. They have even stated they are going to keep the house we are living in right now just for the 4 year old, but we know its not the house its them. HELP!