new girl here lol

Carol - posted on 06/03/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Hi my name is Carol, I will be 39 years old on October I am pregnant with my first baby, and I am my husband second marriage and this my first marriage I have a step son who is 14 years old. So right now I am home because last year I had a miscarriage with the first pregnancy so I guess second time pregnancy so far i am about 5 1/2 month pregnant plus type 2 diabetic so the doctor told me to take it easy. I am lucky my husband ex wife is in Portugal with his son( do not get me wrong i love his son and me and his ex wife get along cause i looked after the son while he was in canada for christmas in 2014) so we send 1300 euros for 1.5 year for child support when it is his birthday he send 300 euros and for Christmas 900 euros i know it is too much money but i think he has guilty father syndrome plus we send shoes and clothes from here plus he is very generous with me to and buys what i want sometimes. I do feel jealous but when it is my birthday,Christmas,anniversary he does spend money on me like his son too but I do not say anything but when i did last time he was making me feel guilty i do not say anything but i know he is a great father and he pays the bills in time and a good man. His son never calls him but his ex wife tells him to talk to my husband but he never does so he talks to his ex wife about the son and when we send stuff to portugal my husband facebook messenger his son what he wants and his ex wife and when my step son gets his message he tells his dad what he wants and etc but normally he does not talk to my husband sometimes he feels upset when his son does not talk to him but i am there but he talks to him when he wants something but i keep my mouth shut

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Carol - posted on 06/04/2016

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True my husband feels sad about it but my step son is 14 years old his ex wife tells her son to talk to his father just makes me sad and he talks to him when he ask what he wants

Michelle - posted on 06/04/2016

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You can't make a child contact his parent, that's upi to the child and the parent he lives with.
I think that's what you are asking here, it got a bit confusing towards the end.

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