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Crystal - posted on 03/08/2014 ( 14 moms have responded )

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The father of my children new girlfriend is calling her self mom. my kids are 5,5 and 6 years old They have been dating for almost a month she moved in with them and they are getting married this summer. I can't talk to the kids dad about this. Due to court reasons Should I tell my lawyer what is going on and she is saying lies about me.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/11/2014

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Wow. I cannot believe that Sarah L is advocating to remove the children, and move 'far away' and not tell dad where they are, and then advocating bribing the children by taking them to Disney world!

First of all, the first recommendation is ILLEGAL, and will result in more trouble than it solves, even initially. The second recommendation...well, I guess you plan on being the big spender so your kids will 'love' you more?

How about advocating that the OP get some good legal advice, have her attorney contact ex's attorney to get the situation mediated and sorted out? Makes much more (legal) sense than advocating an illegal act...

Crystal - posted on 03/09/2014

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I bring thing from home toys,books and special blankets and food that they like for treats. I always tell them that i love them. my son asks me when can he come home

Ev - posted on 03/09/2014

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Sarah L.--The things you suggest like moving far away and not telling anyone where the kids and she is are going to get her in trouble with court orders. Also it is considered buying your kids love when you buy them things all the time and take them to places all the time. That does not constitute love.

Jodi - posted on 03/09/2014

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Why does dad have temporary custody of them? How often do you get to see them? Maybe they do actually feel abandoned if you aren't seeing them often.

Crystal - posted on 03/09/2014

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No she just has 2 kids. I have 3 kids. I do give my kids nice treats and surprise when I can see them.

Crystal - posted on 03/09/2014

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thire dad has temp custody of them. If she is talikng this way around the kids it might explain why my oldest is saying thing like mama dont love me and acting up in school. HE had to get a place for him and the kids. 5 kids and 2 adults living in a 2 bedroom is way small

Crystal - posted on 03/09/2014

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my oldest say mama dont love me any more and mama does want me any more.I have thing the she has written on a social media sight. Thing like these are my new kids and their mom walk out on them.My kids have development delays.

Michelle - posted on 03/09/2014

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Are the lies she's telling damaging you or your relationship with your children? Are there other people that can support your claims of her lying?
You can't control what happens in their house though unless the children are in danger.

Michelle - posted on 03/08/2014

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Ok, so he has primary custody?
It helps to know the whole situation from the beginning.

Crystal - posted on 03/08/2014

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She posed picture of her new twins(my 5 y/o twins. I cant talk to their dad because of court reason. and someone asked me what is up with you walking out on your kids

Michelle - posted on 03/08/2014

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I'm with Jodi, why can't you talk to the childrens' Father? It's a lot easier to co parent when the lines of communication are open.
Also how do you know she is telling lies about you? I think you really need to get it sorted ASAP. Organize some mediation so there is someone else present and talk things through.

Jodi - posted on 03/08/2014

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Why can't you talk to their dad? And if you can't talk to him, who is telling you that she is calling herself mom?

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