Jennifer - posted on 11/01/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
My husband and I have been married for 3 1/2 yrs. He is not the Father of either one of my boys but he is the only man figure in their lives. My 11 yr old talks to his dad on occasion but there is no relationship there and never has been. He lives 11 hrs away and has other kids. My son has very bad anger problems. My husband and I do not get along at all because he is so loud and rude! He is 8 years older than I am and doesn't have kids of his own. I feel like he doesn't know how to parent which makes co-parenting impossible! He is always yelling at my son which in turn just enrages my son even more. Within minutes they are in an all out battle with each other. This happens everyday. I can't keep doing this. I feel like I have to make a major decision.. either let my husband keep treating my son this way or pack up the boys and leave. I try to tell my husband he needs to calm down and parent differently put he doesn't listen to me. My son loves him but says he wishes he would leave. Please help!
My parents have offered to let my son live with them but they live 6 hrs away. I dont know if I should let him go and save my marriage then get him back and fix their relationship or just move back with my parents with the boys and call this marriage a loss. I love him but he is so rude. Everyone sees how rude he is and its really embarrassing.