Boycrazy919504 - posted on 08/09/2016 ( 4 moms have responded )
So a close friend of mine is about to have his first kid. The mother and him are not together anymore and have not been since around the first month. He has been to every Doctors app shes told him about and provided anything he can. Problem is (I don't know if it's hormones or just who she is as a person) she has been going crazy for most of the pregnancy. Sending him texts about how she's going to keep the baby from him if he doesn't do this or that. And told him that if he started dating someone she would make sure he never saw his baby ever. So here is where the question lies. Is there anyone who can help give him answers that can sooth him about the custody case about to come up? I have already tried to prepare him for the likelihood of him not getting main custody. He never had a problem with her keeping the baby for the first 6-8 months mainly because of BFing, but now since she found out that he has been seeing someone she is baring him from delivery (I know it's her right just sucks) and says she will delay paternity testing as long as possible so he can't see his baby for a while. Not sure how much she can actually do. But is there anyone out there that can help us? He doesn't want her to not see her child he just wants to know he can.