Karina - posted on 07/01/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have finally worked up the courage to end my relationship with my husband. I feel he refuses to grow up and although in his 30s continues to "hang out" & party with his friends as if he was a teenager. I met him like this & although he's a good man, he won't change. I couldn't deal with him not coming home or choosing to go out rather than spending time with us, and now I feel like my son is getting the short end of the stick b/c of my choices. I hate that he has to grow up without his dad b/c I didn't chose his father correctly, and the worst part is feeling like he could have his daddy if only I compromise my expectations and stay with his father. My son is only 3, and his father has been very involved in his life but I know if we are not together he will not be a part my baby's life. Is staying with his father worth the sacrifice? I'm worried my son will grow up to resent not having his father around.