niece who is 32 years old-has many signs of Asperger

Cindy - posted on 04/25/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have a niece who is 32 years old- married but husband also shows signs of Aspergers. Both are very hostile toward me. Should I just forget about trying to get along with them?

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/25/2014

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Has she always treated you this way? If so, she's giving you a bold signal that she does not want you to be involved in her life. If they are happy, they are happy. Are you sure you're not putting feelings onto them that aren't actually occuring?

I would say it's time to heed that signal and move on.

I love my Aunties, all of them, but I'm not CLOSE to them, nor do I see them on a daily, weekly, monthly, or even semiannual basis.

Cindy - posted on 04/25/2014

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If I did ask her she would say it was none of my business. That is her common answer to any question. She doesn't have any family feelings. Her husband is just like her. They cannot relate to anyone except her mom.. They don't have any friends and don't have a clue as to how to get any. She doesn't like me because I have a lot of friends. I know that for sure

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/25/2014

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Why do you feel they are hostile to you? Have you asked your niece why she treats you that way? Has she always treated you that way?

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