Starr Alexis Ikie - posted on 10/08/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
My 9 yr old daughter doesn't like my new guy friend,he is sweet,not abusive,at all. When he is around she doesn't speak,she rolls her eyes,and that's when he leaves. I don't stop him from leaving because my daughter comes first,I've asked her several times why she doesn't like him,she said she just don't like him,which she is like that with my ex,which was 3 yrs ago. How should I deal with her,she knows that she will always be here with me,and i give her all my attention,no matter if he's here,we all use to laugh and joke, but she likes to say things to him and when he jokes with her she gets upset. We have to see each other when she's at school,because he says he doesn't want to make her unhappy. Then its an issue with are relationship,about us not spending time. My child comes first at all times,so what do I do.