No contact with my children

Karen - posted on 01/28/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My husband took my kids away from me 24 years ago. He had interim custody. My son Matthew will be 30 this month, I have not seen him since he was 5. Katie will be 25 in March, I saw her once for about an hour when she was about 16 years old. They live in the same community, just across the river.

This is causing me pain. I do have a loving husband and his 5 children and 6 grand kids have been loving to me for the past 14 years. I get sad on birthdays, holidays.
I have a beautiful loving family but there is always a pain in my heart.
I would just like my adult kids to know who I am, I believe my ex-husband has brainwashed them against me.

It feels good just talking about it.

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Cyndi Lewis - posted on 01/28/2014

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Since they are adults now you should have the opportunity to connect with them. If they are Leary of seeing you, write them letters, send cards, etc. Then it will be their choice. God gave you a second family to love and fulfill your needs. Cherish them. Blood doesn't always make you families. It's the love. I will pray for you

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