Ann - posted on 11/02/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
Im 23 and have been with my husband for almost 4 years now have 2 kids and expecting another in june 2015. I dont like sex. Never have. My husband understood at first that there would be days i just didnt want to do it and other times we would. We used to have sex about 3-5 x a week when we were first together but now its down to 1-3x a week if that. I feel like a failure in our marriage and it feels like its only going downhill from here. Ive tried to have sex more with my husband for the sake of saving what we have left. But i cant do it anymore. Im either not in the mood, tired, its uncomfortable and like i just dont like it! But that doesnt mean i dont love my husband because i truly do and i dont know what id do without him. I dont know what to do and its gotten to the point now where i cant please him unless we start having sex almost everyday and i just cant do that and hes even asked if he can go sleep with someone else just to relieve sexual tension but i cant do that how am i supposed to be alright with that?! I just need to know im not the only one whos ever felt this way.