Nikki - posted on 06/29/2012 ( 15 moms have responded )
A few weeks ago my daughter was in the ER for a high fever loss of appetite, no bowel movements, no urination and deydration. She was in the ER for four hours with IV fluids Enema to induce bowel movement, Catheter to test urine for kidney infection blood draw for detection of any disease or infection. It was traumatizing and a scary experience for a one year old to go through. Her father did not show up for this whole process not knowing how serious this was going to be in the end. His excuse was that he was sick also and did not want to sit in an ER the way he was feeling. My daughter was eventually released from the ER with a diagnosis of a viral infection. I was going to need to get pedialyte and Ibuprofen for her with it being late I needed to get money to get these things because the bank was closed leaving after 10 at night from the ER. He left me $20 dollars in the mailbox to pick to get these things she needed because he was at his moms doing something for her. Really? I thought you were too sick yourself to do anything. You can do something for your mom but you can't come be with your daughter during a crisis. Not only that yesterday I called him to see if he was going to keep his daughter before she goes out of town for the holiday and he told me to stop texting him because he has his son and he is sick I was so upset to this reply due to how he acted when my daughter was in the hospital and just that he could have said somthing nicer than that it was unneccessary. How would you feel in this situation. I am so tired of his favortism and narcissistic attitude. Help me ladies he is so hard to deal with I really want to stop dealing with him all together when it comes to my daughter and his relationship.