not a question bout kids! Just need advice from someone not involed!

Alisha - posted on 05/24/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Im sorry this is not bout kids. I need advice from someone who isnt involved in this situation i dont know what to do. I am 22 yrs old i have a 2 yr old and a 16 yrs old sister my mother was forced into going to the dr by her soon to be husband bout a paint in her breast and thy found sereval lumps and the dr wanted to do a byopsy to remove it and make sure if it is cancer or not this has been bout a year ago maybe not quit that long ago. Now she confuided in me and told me she is having a burning sinsation in her left breast when the biggest mass was found I told her to go to the dr that i didnt want anything to happen to her she needed to find out for sure what it was and to let them fix it. bt she refused to go she has had cerival canser txice since i was born then last time she had to when she was pregant with my sister. She is geting remarried this weekend to a wonderful man who she loves very much bt she told me not to tell him how shes been feeling. she thinks its better to be left in the dark andnot know what is wrong with her but i believe it would be best to tell him whats going on but i dont want her to be mad at me. I dont want to see her hurting or sick an i most defountily dont wont to loose her. what do i do

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At 22, I would tell you mom's future husband the WHOLE story and that you don't want her mad but that you DON'T want to lose her.

I can't believe that she would be mad or at least not for long, although I don't know her. I think that she would be more greatful that your were concerned enough to go to someone that you have no real ties to but that she does (her new husband) with concern for her.

You are right to be concerned. And a very wonderful daughter.

This is not selfishness on your part and you have no real reason to be quiet about it with him. If they are getting married and she loves him, then he should know. It may be that you and him will be left to raise the 16 yr old and the 2 yr old. With that in mind, move forward.

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Alisha - posted on 05/24/2012

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Thank you for the advice and i do believe your right im need to tell him. He can make her go to the dr

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