Kiki - posted on 12/22/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost three years. He has two wonderful children that I adore. His ex-wife has had trouble coping since the get-go. She threatens to take the children away over any conflict. (i.e. his requesting that she not modify the schedule so much) So we've talked marriage and he asked my family for their blessing so the proposal is coming soon.
All that to ask: How do we break the news in a loving/respectful way to an already toxic ex-wife? I do not believe at this current time in our lives that she would be able to calmly have a conversation with either of us. I also do not want her to find out through the children or social media.
Help! How do we do this!