Kieran - posted on 05/18/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
I had a look at some of the messages on here from single mums complaining about fathers that are not in their kids life's, or don't know their kids. first of all, not all fathers(there's some) that don't want anything to do with their kids, in most cases the mother does everything she can to stop the child and father from being in each others life's and knowing each other. My daughter will be 3 this year, and i've not seen her since she was 2mnths old, now i tried everything i could for 2yrs to get my daughters bitch ass of a mother to let me see kayla, but she always did everything to stop that from happening, and that killed me no end, i was at the bottom of the well, i couldn't get any further down in life, the constant heartache and pain of not being in kayla's life tore my heart to pieces. it was destroying my life, and it got to a point where i had to realise that it is the way it is, rebuild my life and move on. i always txt'd, emailed, and msg'd her asking how kayla is, and all i got back was she's fine, that's if she didn't ignore me all together, she got pure enjoyment out of my heartache. so i moved on with my life, met someone new, and became a father to a beautiful little girl, Melissa. and when kayla's mum found out about this through my lawyer, she started being even more of a bitch, coming out with things such as, i abandoned my kayla, never wanted anything to do with her and other crap like this. well it didn't work on me, she chose to run away back home to her family with my daughter, and cut me off completely, NOT me. then after 2 yrs she txt's me asking why i haven't bothered to ask about kayla!, wtf!!, cheeky cow. if kayla wants to see me when she's 16, then she can get in touch, but nothing will happen before then, because i will NEVER agree to see her mum or her family EVER again. so what i'm saying to all u single mums out there, yes some fatyhers are assholes, but not all, so do NOT be putting all the blame on us guys, take a good long hard look in the mirror first before u's try and say it's all the fathers fault.