Amy - posted on 12/14/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi im a first time mum and have a 3 month old baby girl the thing is right now i just seem to have a real problem with letting my family, her dad and others babysit my baby. Its not that i dont trust them i just hate being apart from her. when she was first born i let people hold and cuddle her as of course i was happy to show of my new baby, when she was around 7-8 weeks old i let my mum baby sit because she was constantly on my back about it and i thought it would do me the world of good except i was extremley worried sick and ever since then i will not let her, babys dad or anybody take her even for a couple of hours. im constantly making excuses because i feel as though if i try and explain my feelings they will not understand me and just be totally arsey with me. they wont get how im feeling. Its wearing me down how do i explain to everybody that right now i am not comftable with being apart from my baby? is this normal?