Melissa - posted on 04/05/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )
so me and my ex are going separate ways now. today he gave me a letter to be signed agreeing to terms of visitation. As of right now he has full custody. Only because his sister is moving in and she will be free babysitting as opposed to us paying for a sitter if she were to live with me full time. Seeing as how he works during the day and I work at night and I live more than a half hour away. He is letting me have Sunday night, monday, tuesday, and wednesday morning as visitation and any other days i want to see her, i can, as long as he agrees to it. This is not a court ordered thing... its just something he typed up and wants to get notarized. Also there is no child support that was talked about, only paying 50/50 on medical and school. Is there anything else i should watch out for or add into this agreement that i may be forgetting. I have no family to help me so i'm reaching out here.
Also, i do not plan on having this be a permanent thing. Does anyone think that there is a chance he would take me to court if i decide to go for full custody of her? and do you guys think that the letter he typed up could be used in court?