Bobbydigital - posted on 03/14/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
Thanks for reading. First, I am a young single father and basically, our child's mother left us for the party life. When our child was young, would refuse to watch him, would openly despise having him so basically she didn't want to be a mother. I had to step up and i did in a major major way. I became superdad and supermom.
This in a way made this worse. Our child growing up saw that I did everything for him and this cause his mom to not care for our son even more (she knows our son is a great hands and doesn't have to worry). She has never doubted my fatherly skills.
Now that she is older, she wants to be part our child's life (btw, I am just as young but for some reason everyone ignores that, lol). I am ok with that but her method to seek it is telling the courts that I alienated our child against her when in reality it was her being selfish that caused our child to not want for her. He is still too young to voice his own opinion so it becomes a he said vs she said.
She is and has constantly blamed her selfish choices in life that backfire on me. Her poor relationship with her son was her own doing but I feel she thinks its my responsibility to ensure her own child likes her always regardless of what she feels towards him.
This has put a major damper on me. We both make over 100k a year now and I know lawyers eyes will have dollar signs on them knowing how much they can milk either of us.
I just want to know, has anyone experience this before where the absent parent blames the other parent instead of blaming themselves and how it turned out?