Oil field mom with a questionable husband

Heather - posted on 08/02/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have caught my husband talking to other women a few times but the last was on a dating sites with women in his area! One he told he was single and the other divorced! I work full time and we have been married almost 5 years and he's been in the oil field half of that time. Anyone with any suggestions? Divorce is not an option.

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Ev - posted on 08/02/2014

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You need to really sit down face to face and talk about how you feel about this and what it means to you. He needs to hear that. Also go seek a counselor out and work on your marriage.

Heather - posted on 08/02/2014

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We have talked and do always. Just not sure what to do now. He says all he wants is me. He calls it stupid actions. I love him but I think I'm ready to leave.

Ev - posted on 08/02/2014

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You need to confront him and talk to him on this. You might need counseling. But to say that divorce is not an option at this point is not something you can enforce. You can not force him to be with you if he has some how changed his mind he does not want to be married anymore. You need to communicate with him.

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