ok so help me please

Laasia - posted on 11/15/2013 ( 13 moms have responded )

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Imma Carmel girl very close to light skinned I'm pregnant right now in idk really who my baby dad is because me in the black dude had intercourse September 3 in the other one he's Mexicon Sept 15 around there 9th to 25 Mexicon guy black dude we only did it once Mexicon everyday between those periods so I'm 3months on Nov 21 in idk who my baby dad is but I'm pretty sure its the black man because it takes 2 weeks in I'm scared because I don't want a baby from the black man I want one with my bf so I may still have the child but I want to know if I have a baby with the black man will my baby be as black as him or my color I just want to know very worry

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Ev - posted on 11/17/2013

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Lassia-I was not trying to be mean but to point out the possible after effects of all this. It does not matter as the other poster said if he was an ex or just some guy you met somewhere. Chances are still there for a disease to come along. And another note, just because the tests came out fine this time does not mean you are free of an illness or diease, some of them take years to come to light so I would test each year because you still do not know.

[momoftwo] - posted on 11/16/2013

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I would suggest now that your pregnant don't have anymore alcohol because then it will have an effect only if you continue.
And why would you go and cheat on your boyfriend? Now you're in a pickle that could have been avoided.
Either way though like Sarah said, you HAVE to come out and tell the truth because the only way to tell for sure is by paternity test. I agree with Sarah also in the fact that it can look hispanic but be black.

I have watched my fair share of Maury Povich lol, and I've seen it on there like a 1000 times.

Jodi - posted on 11/15/2013

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If you didn't want a baby with a black man, you shouldn't have had sex with him. Does your boyfriend know you don't know who the father is?

No-one can tell you what colour your baby will be. You will need to wait and see, and then do the DNA test, as suggested by Sarah.

Sarah - posted on 11/15/2013

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You will need to do a DNA test as completion won't be able to tell you who the father is. The baby may look white and be half black. Or baby may look Hispanic but really be black. I would second the usage of birth control or not even having sex.

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[momoftwo] - posted on 11/17/2013

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I'm not saying you have an STD either but I thought I'd share this info for you if you didn't know. And also, To add to what Evelyn was saying, I didn't know this before but I was curious and asked a doctor and apparently swab only checks for chlamydia, gonorrhoea and trichomonas. There's no test for genital warts and stuff like that it's only a visual thing and they'd take a biopsy from it. And Genital warts alone can lay dormant your whole life and could show up when you're 60 lol. HIV/Aids, Hepatitis A,B,&C (and some other diseases) are tested by blood.

Just be honest with your man and be safe because no one wants anything to happen to you or your baby. And make sure your man is being faithful too.

Amy - posted on 11/17/2013

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If u have to ask if drinking while preggo will harm your unborn baby. Chances are u know the answer!! No its not ok!! U have someone else to think about other than u now. In the future I hope u make wiser decisions!!

Michelle - posted on 11/17/2013

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Just because he was an ex doesn't mean he hasn't been sleeping around and contracted something. Do you every woman he has slept with since you split up?
Evelyn has a point.

Laasia - posted on 11/17/2013

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Ok with the stds went way to far he was my ex I was not just sleeping around as you see only two people but thanks for a respond.

Ev - posted on 11/16/2013

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No matter about Maury's show, the case and point is this has happened and I agree with the other ladies here on what you need to do. What were you doing having sex with other men if you wanted to have children with your boyfriend? That is plain and simple. You cheated. And you need to be up front about this. If not, you are putting yourself into a heap of trouble over things. I would suggest that you think about what is going on and take care of it. There is really no need to be sleeping around like that. You do not know where the men have been or who they have been with and the diseases you might come in contact with and believe it, even no symptoms of a disease or illness does not mean you do not have one so I would also be asking for a test for STD's as well. Its to protect the baby for one and you for another.

Laasia - posted on 11/16/2013

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I drunk a little alcohol in I'm pregnant will it affect the baby it was two shots only.

Michelle - posted on 11/15/2013

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You won't know until the baby is born. There is No WAY of telling what the baby will look like.
Maybe you should use birth control and condoms all at the same time, then you wouldn't be in this dilemma.

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