Tanya - posted on 09/03/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
I recently met a man who is in an open marriage. I discovered later he was on 4 dating websites. He pursued me for months and I finally agreed to meet. I have been single a long time. Definite attraction. What this doesn't address is the selfishness of it all. I get used and he goes back to his wife? Initially, I was bothered by the fact of hurting his family. He would state that nobody would be getting hurt. He never addressed me and my feelings. Other than stating he would protect me. On our 2nd meeting he convinced me to go to his home. Wife at work. He forgot that he needed to pick up his children early. He promised nothing sexual but within 5 minutes his pants were down .. I left soon.. Already feeling hurt due to telling me that he wanted me in his life etc. I was developing feelings already after a month of talking. She wears a ring/he does not. I find it all disturbing. Interesting how their FB shows this perfect blended family. Beautiful home, vacations.. Wife is younger. What more could he want? Repeatedly he said he wasn't selfish! I find this entire situation to be a mountain of selfishness.