Nicky - posted on 03/22/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
My 14 year old son is making my life a living hell. For around 3 years it has been going from bad to worse, I asked for help from social services who in my opinion have done nothing much really to help the situation and have managed to grind me down more. My son has been excluded from 3 schools and now does not attend school full stop. He smashes the house up every time he gets angry which is several times a week. He threatens me and and has his friends in the house all the time I have no door on my bedroom or his because he smashed them up so really I have no privacy. I basically have no control of my house and I feel it is not my home anymore. Sometimes I feel I
Am a victim in my own home. It's horrible feeling I have to live with someone who has no respect for me. It seems social services are more concerned about safeguarding the child and not about safeguarding the parent . I can't cope anymore with his behaviour and feel so run down. I believe my son has oppositional defiant disorder or some kind of behaviour disorder he ticks all the boxes I have told social services this also the clinical Phycologist this but feel I am hitting brick walls as if I do 'to know what I'm talking about. I have worked in health and social care for 15 years and worked with challenging behaviour but my son is very out of control. I don't know what to do and feel my health and well being can't take much more.