Out of wedlock son

Oswald - posted on 09/14/2016 ( 15 moms have responded )

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I love my wife but l also love my baby moma. I'm 58 years old , my baby mom is in her 40s. My son is 5 months old . I'm torn ben staying at home or moving in with my baby's mom. My heart and soul wants to leave

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/15/2016

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Oh, and by the way, your OP reads "I love my wife, but I also love my baby moma" (nice derogatory term there, btw). "I am 58 years old, my baby mom is in her 40s. my son is 5 months old. I'm torn ben (?) staying at home or moving in with my baby's mom. my heart and soul wants to leave"

DIRECTLY QUOTED FROM YOUR OP.

Nothing, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, about coming clean with your wife. In my house, you wouldn't have a choice. You'd be out. Sans pecker, too...I would happily remove it, ala Lorena Bobbit style. You can't keep it in your pants, so why do you need it?

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Michelle - posted on 09/16/2016

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What did you actually want from us? Yes, we will call you names as you admitted you cheated on your wife and got another woman pregnant.
We never said you were the only person to cheat, look at my previous reply. My ex husband was a cheating ass like you.
You haven't even remotely replied to us, just posted random crap. Go away, this is a Mother's forum, not a forum for cheating dogs like you.

Dove - posted on 09/15/2016

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Of course you aren't the only one to do wrong... no one is perfect, but what exactly did you expect when you came here and posted this.....?

If it will make you feel better you can change the 'cheating scumbag' comment to simply cheater.... The rest isn't name calling, but simply calling your actions out for what they are...

And of course you can't change what you've done... but if the person you married is still willing to stay married to you... she is the one you are supposed to be committed to. You should absolutely be there for your newest child, but you do not have to be WITH the mother to have a relationship w/ the baby. Have you sought counsel w/ your pastor?

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/15/2016

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What do you want out of this? Why are you still here? To be quite honest, you attempting to downplay your blatant lack of morals is pitiful.

No one is without sin! No one here ever implied that however, NONE OF US WHO HAVE COMMENTED HAVE IN ANY WAY BEEN UNFAITHFUL OR DELIBERATELY IMMORAL!,

Stop with your bullshit!

If it bother you to be called a cheating bastard, you should have taken that into consideration before you decided to violate your marriage vows. Quit trying to justify anything.

Oswald - posted on 09/15/2016

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Calling names , do they really apply? How many people walking next to you on the street are you aware of that is of without sin ?

Oswald - posted on 09/15/2016

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I accept all comments, but nothing changes what I've done . Really, am l the first ? Start counting ( don't get me wrong , I've done a great wrong to all involved.) Am l the only sinner on the face of this earth, hm , l wonder ? Send no sympathy in the mail, I'm totally wrong, can't undo that wrong. If only we're all of clean and pure hearts , how wonderful the world would've been , hm , l wonder !

Dove - posted on 09/15/2016

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If I was your wife you wouldn't have a choice to make... you'd be out of my home cuz you are a cheating scumbag... If your wife is generous enough to put up w/ your pathetic nonsense you would probably be a fool to leave that kind of love and commitment... but your actions prove you are already a fool. Quite frankly if I were the mother of your youngest child (the term 'baby mama' is so low life) I'd want nothing to do w/ you knowing you cheated on your wife w/ me... but then I guess I was just raised that marriage vows mean something and sex outside of marriage has drastic consequences (both Biblically and practically) that I don't want to pay.

No one can tell you what choice to make, but I sure hope you man up on all accounts... 58 and still acting like a 'playboy'... what? Midlife crisis?

Michelle - posted on 09/15/2016

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Having been cheated on I would have kicked you out before you had time to register what was happening.
Why bring up the bible? You obviously haven't read it.
YOU broke your marriage vows, that shows you don't love your wife. None of us said you couldn't support your children so don't know why you brought that up. We don't care, we actually feel for your wife actually wanting to stay with your cheating ass when you have said you want to leave.
Leave then, you may find that the grass really isn't greener and your mistress will leave you a sad lonely old man.

Jodi - posted on 09/15/2016

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Nowhere in your post did you say you had told your wife. You're lucky this is even your decision and she didn't kick your ass to out. But seriously, exactly what are you trying to achieve posting here? Validation? Because you aren't going to get it. 58 years old? Grow the fuck up.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/15/2016

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YOU WENT AGAINST THE BIBLE!!!!!!!!

Don't be holier than thou with me...YOU fucked up. Literally.

What the fuck did you want from this site, anyway? Validation that you are some fucking upstanding citizen? You're not. You're the lowest form of scum next to child predators in my book.

Oswald - posted on 09/15/2016

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Well , l did tell my wife , re read my post. I also do have the ability to take care of all my children. (4 now) I don't deny any of them . Sorry to say , I'm not the first nor the last , I'm not defending my bad decision or action . Read the Bible

Michelle - posted on 09/15/2016

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I agree with the other ladies.
YOU chose to violate your marriage vows. You need to tell your wife and suffer the consequences.
Your Girlfriend isn't much better, especially if she knew you were married.

Jodi - posted on 09/15/2016

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Yeah, if you ACTUALLY loved your wife you wouldn't have cheated on her. At least be honest with yourself if you can't be honest with her.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/14/2016

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You are a sorry asses cheating bastard, and you have the balls to come on to a MOTHER'S site and ask advice?

Tell your wife what a sorry bastard you are, and support your kid, jerk

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