Leya - posted on 12/28/2013 ( 14 moms have responded )
Hi everyone just after some advice, my husband and I have known each other for 8 years now and we got married last year and now we have a beautiful 4 month old baby boy, but here's the thing, when I got pregnant he was nice for the first couple of months n then after that the arguing started. Believe it or not most of the time over food...( because days I couldn't get out of bed due to hypermesis gravidarum)
Anyways he used to throw words around like what an idiot or go help my sister do the dishes infront of people, mind u I was 9 months pregnant and I just cleared his sisters dinner table.. But it's like he wanted me to work non stop, any who I gave birth and within 20 mins his whole family were in my birthing room(blood and all) the day I came out of hospital again his whole family was over made a mess and fucked off, so I cleaned and cleaned and cleaned while he smoked pot after they left. He wanted to name our baby so I let him,(how nice of me) and then he asked me to cut his hair (I'm a hairdresser) but I just wasn't up to it and I fucked it up n then I broke down felt worthless, useless, I didn't want to live anymore, he was so upset he told me he loves me bought me flowers blah blah blah... But now his attitude is fucked he's back to his normal self telling me off infront of people pretty much treating me like a total enemy, even to strangers his all nice n bubbly except to me.. I feel like an outsider, like I don't feel comfortable in my own home, I've threatened to leave but he just says "go I don't care" well I don't know what to do anymore whenever I don't speak to him I'm being dry, and whenever I do talk to him I get the shut up I don't want to hear it, or how can I sleep with a screaming baby! I've turned to really hate him and I don't want my son to grow up without his dad. And apparently looking after a baby isn't work apparently his mum does more work than I do.. :"( I hate my husband but should I stick it out for my baby's sake?