Pain with intercourse NOT caused by dryness

Default - posted on 01/23/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Had my son Oct 4. Milk dried up in Dec. With BOTH pregnancies sex hurt and, therefore I couldn't do it. Now yet again I have the same issue. I get ready down there just fine, but the penetration is awful. I tolerate it, but I'm out of patience with pain. My doc was no help. Advice? experience? Anything? I talked to hubby about it, but he can only understand so much since he isn't in serious pain.

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Default - posted on 01/24/2015

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stitches with both deliveries I was told both sets of stitches were a 2nd degrees and took about 10 minutes to stitch both times. The pain when he draws back is similar to him scraping me with sand paper from the inside. Often I end up bloody enough for a liner. He never complains of dryness either, but again if you have a decent lube you recommend I will try it.

Michelle - posted on 01/24/2015

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Most women are only wet around the entrance, not all the way up in the vagina.
What sort of pain are you having? Is it inside or outside? Did you have stitches after delivering your babies?

Default - posted on 01/23/2015

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I've literally heard squishing noises. The problem is not dryness. We don't use lubricants because 99.9% of the time I get a UTI. If you have a worth while brand I will take the suggestion. And what do you mean "further up"?

Michelle - posted on 01/23/2015

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Do you use a lubricant? You may think you aren't dry but really you are dry further up.

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