Vrj - posted on 08/24/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
My question today is.
Short version: my sister has threatened that she has spoke to SS and they said they can force me my partner and daughter to do a dna because she says the babys not his and its fraud and he will goto jail..??
Me and my parnter got together just before i fell pregnant or so we now have a doubt because of smy family stirring stuff we have just been exhausted by them threting us always causing arguments and so on and my partner whos daughter were not sure is now has been there through thick and thin well to hell and back!! Because my family didnt welcome him with open arms or any form ov acceptence. And have practically made him hate them with a passion...
More to the point i dont want one of my sisters seeing lola at all because of her past and the fact she has 2 children and felt instead of being a mother she wanted to do mcat and fet and had her children removed from her custody.. so i said she will never see her ever! But my parter still said no she can see er when she sorts her act out, wich is fair enough. But she has said that she phoned the social services and asked them if she can force us to do a dna test and they said yes and if it comes back its not his he will get done for fraud... My point is no matter if he was or wasnt he is he has been there from when i found out i was pregnant to now and my daughter and him have such an amazing bond ive never seen anything like it he loves her to bits and its when she can ear him her head turns to door and she will just be like 0-0 and then :D when he walk round corner..
Sorry to babble im just scare as i want to know if it is true or would we have a say and be able to turn it down and tell them to keep there noes out of our buisness as if we had to go through all the hassle it would tear us appart i dont think he can take any more bull off my family. And i can never break my daighter and him up there are just so close in a way that no one can grasp plus if he got put through all the hassle i do beleve he would break down and probable do some damage as he has got a brain injury and has issues with imotions and attatchmemts they both just make eachothers day hes an amazing farther and i feel so bad for what hes been through i really want help on this please sorry if its all just babble and nonsense im trying to xplain as good as i can hope i can find the answeres i want to hear xx