Danielle - posted on 08/18/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
I have been with my partner for 3 years now and are engaged to marry next july 2013. I have a teenage son 17 and a teenage daughter 14 he has two sons 13 and 10. Me and my two live with my partner and have the boys to stay over a lot of the time. My daughter 14 has had a bad three years with the breakup of her father and me and my new relationship with my new partner. she does not see her bio father and this has affected her a lot. we have all had our ups and downs with her, she has been very disrispectful at times, swears and has been physically agressive. her behaviour has now started to improve, which is a good thing as she is coming out the end. now we have started to have the same behaviour from my partners son 13 and my partner is blaiming all his change in behaviour on my daughter. he now says he can not live with my daughter because of this and has started to ignore her and stay away from the home. he has staited he wants her to move out which means i now have to move aswell. he says he loves me but wants to pospone the wedding/marriage next year as he cant stand being around my daughter anymore. He says he has to protect his sons and can not disipline her, my daughter my problem he cant help me. All advice greatly received.