Paternity test stressing me out!!!!

Jenny - posted on 05/02/2013 ( 12 moms have responded )

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So recently me, my baby,and her father got a paternity test. Like 2 weeks ago. Well I've been stressing only cuz I had unprotected sex with a guy in April. Doctors say I got pregnant in May and I had my baby February. Is there anyway possible I could have gotten pregnant in April but not have known it. The last time I had had my period was in May, May 6th to be exact. Or am I just stressing too much??!!

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Cassandra - posted on 05/04/2013

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not necessarily true my husband the father of my son had sex with a girl and she found out she was pregnant and she didnt kno who the father was she was sure it was my husband but to be sure they went and got a DNA test just to be safe so there is no reason to stress sooo just keep ur head up and think positive

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/02/2013

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Well, I guess, yeah, I'd be concerned. Sounds like the alleged father may have his own suspicions as well.

Look at it this way: If it isn't the one guy's, at least you'll know who the other culprit is!

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Keyta - posted on 05/05/2013

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you got pregnant in may. my due date was January 16th 2013 and my doct says i got pregnant on April 25th 2012

Angela - posted on 05/05/2013

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Rebecca, that is SHOCKING that a man would go to those lengths to avoid meeting his responsibility! What a jerk!

Rebecca - posted on 05/04/2013

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i completly understand you on the stressing i had to go through the same thing because me and my exhusband had bn divorced for 2yrs but was hanging out one night and i ended up pregant with my 2nd child well 3 months later i realized i was prego bt had a new boyfriend my exhusband which is a jerk all about himself tottally denied even having the night i got prego but i was 100% the baby was his but anyways after my son was born child support order dna and of course my son was my ex husbands bt i had to wait a extra 2 months to get results on test because my jerk of ex husband bleached his mouth and when they done 1st dna test his dna came up blank and he had to redo his test but point is my son is my ex husband i wouldnt worry sweetie either way u will find out keep your head held high

Jenny - posted on 05/04/2013

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I'm getting them back this coming week I hope because anymore waiting and I'll go crazy. I think I'm just over thinking it because his family says she has his ugly hair line lol. So I will keep positive thoughts.

Angela - posted on 05/04/2013

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When do you find out the results of this test?

From what you say it sounds unlikely that this (April) guy is the child's father. But only the test results will say for certain.

Good luck.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/02/2013

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Well if you are so certain, then why are you freaking out? And why are you asking if you are so sure? The lesson learned here, use protection.

Jenny - posted on 05/02/2013

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Also I had sex with a guy in April and got my period in May. Then I had sex with who I think is my baby's father all of May which is when I ended up pregnant

Jenny - posted on 05/02/2013

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We didn't choose to take the test child support put an order in. I mean can you guys honestly say I got pregnant in April instead of May. I deliver exactly on my due date of February 11th

~♥Little Miss - posted on 05/02/2013

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Well, I would be worried with such a short time span between having sex with 2 men and your period coming between it. Estimated due dates are wrong all the time, so yeah. Worry until the test comes back. I am assuming the father knows about your indiscretion or he would not be taking a test?

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