Laura - posted on 09/15/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )
Ive been with my partner 2 years, about 6 months ago my 6 year old daughter consistently started to be unhappy about him taking her to school or bed after a few weeks I asked her why and she said it was because he shouted at her and smacked her, I asked when and she said ages ago and only once and because she was naughty, I explained he wouldn't do it again and she said he hadnt done it since and shes been absolutely fine since, no problems. But then today her dad dropped her back to me saying she had wrote in a book over the weekend that she didnt like when my parner hit her.
So how do I go about this now asking her about it, I don't want him here if he smacks her and she seemed to have gotten over that fear he was gonna hit her again. I do on occasion smack her bum, so I wonder why its such an issue for her, she loves him to bits so I cant understand, what do I do now?