Kim - posted on 07/16/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
I have been with my 9 month olds father for almost 2 years now and I'm currently pregnant with another child from him. We've had a very toxic relationship and there has been a lot of abuse, cops have been called, he's been arrested on many occasions. However... he has always come back. always. I know everybody will wonder why I am even asking this stuff... but in a way, I have no closure.
Roughly a month ago or so he was arrested again for 2d degree assault, given a no contact order, I called on him after getting mad 1 night and he was arrested again, and let out on bail with another no contact order, last thursday i called on him AGAIN due to being upset and worked up and he was arrested again and released once more on bail.
so he is currently out as we speak... and I have no heard a word from him since. The longest we've gone without speaking/seeing each other is around 3 or 4 days and it's now about to go past that. His mother and I DO NOT get along nor have we ever and she is the one who keeps bailing him out.... I know he is probably VERY angry and VERY nervous with the law.... but heres what I don't understand.
He's logged onto his email & his IM & such still has a picture of us, his photobucket still remains with all the pictures of us & our son, and he really hasn't seemed to change anything online but we've shared accounts for things and I'm pretty sure he's logged into them since the last incident.
Like I said I just feel as if I have no closure and if this is the end... I guess it's the end and is probably what is for the best but I just feel so sad & alone & depressed. Please do not judge me, but does anybody have any opinions on this?
His mom is our leasing agent to the apartment that we share so he is currently staying with her.