please give me advice. i am a mom in great need of help. please

Cheri - posted on 12/30/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Hello moms, i really need done advice on this. I can't afford a lawyer but need as much free legal help and advice i can get. Im here in California. I lefy a previous relationship because my ex true nature was starting to show. He started to get very bullying, verbally agressive in front of my kids, threatening me, my family and himself.. The last month we were together i had a son. Not sure if the son is his or not and he knows that. I always tried to be upfront with hon from the beginning. My son and i moved oit along with myh other children. Didn't tell him where i moved. After the move i have talked to his moon and they messages me both saying how creepy he is. How he is a violent person. His own kids stated that he would hit his older son. Having that in mind and him threatening me and my family, saying he will make my life hell. I didn't respond. He said i world be hearing from his lawyer. So that's what i was waiting for. I didn't want to have to deal with him directly. I saved my texts that i could from him. His 14 yr old daughter and his ex girlfriend before me. All which say he is violent. Might i ad i never meet these people before i meet him. Anyways he messaged me again after 7 months saying that i made a bad choice keeping my son away. And that he will win win win. He messaged me again.saying I'm making it easier for him.to win in court.. Not Sue what he us talking about since my life revolves around my children and nothing else. I Assn a still casing mother. Never been in trouble and try to love a good wholesome life. My children range from 19 to 1 and i am Vertu proud of my children. What i ask worried about its keeping my son away will that affect me in court? The reason i keep him away is because of his violent nature and his children saying they were abused. Second he can afford a lawyer and i can't. Is there anyone in California that can help? Advice legal aside, i don't know just experience. Pro bono lawyers. I'm in sacramento also. When the time cones if he really gets a paternity test i want to be prepared. I am my sons voice. He cant speak and tell me if something happens to him. I am fighting for my son. O do have other children and do Co parent fine with the dad. Thus scares me. I never been in.a situation like this. I want my son and family to b remain safe. Please help

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Cheri - posted on 12/30/2013

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Sorry for all the mispelled words, working from my phone and auto correct.:/ thanks for reading

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