Tonya - posted on 05/09/2016 ( 12 moms have responded )
I'm looking for help. My husband's children were taken into states custody due to actions of his note ex wife. I fight alongside my husband to get his kids back for 5 long years. CPS threw every curve at us the whole way. After 5 years of the kids being in foster care we finally got custody of them. We have had them now for 3 years. They are now 12 and 10. I am looking for advice on how to deal with their behavior. They will not listen to anything we ask. They have put marks on themselves and told us we did it to make us feel guilty when we didn't do anything. Our 12 year steals our 10 year still poops his pants and wets the bed every night. They refuse to listen to anything we say even after three years. Our 12 year old took a pair of her used panties to school in her backpack!!! She hordes things including trash in her bed. We have tried everything we can think of please help!!!?