Please help? Do you think a man lieing about having children can be forgivable

Jessica - posted on 04/24/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )

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REALLY NEED ADVICE AND OPINIONS?
Okay so I met this man online in September. We only talked on the phone from September to January. Then in January we met one another. Since January we have been dating and are very serious. He's a wonderful man and we get along great. From the first time we talked he told me he had 2 sons. And seems to be a great dad to them. About 2 weeks ago he got permanent custody of them. And even before that he was picking them up EVERYDAY and had them until bed time then they would go home. I have met them a few times. But the last week I've watched them because he goes to work at 5am. So the other day one of his sons told me that he's an uncle because his sister just had a baby. I really didn't ask him to many questions. But later that night I asked his dad how he was an uncle he acted dumb then said oh because my goddaughter just had a baby. Well earlier today I was watching them again and they mentioned having a sister again and also 2 other brothers...So I texted there dad at work and asked him if he had other children. At first he was avoiding my question and kept saying we will talk later. But I said no I wanna know now. Well then he told me yes he does. And that he actually has 5 kids and a granddaughter. So my question is should I leave him or let him explain. When he came to pick up the boys I just sent the boys outside to him. Since then he keeps calling and texting and I won't respond.

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Haylin - posted on 04/24/2015

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All i know is that "Once a liar always a liar". That will never change, so now imagine how many other things he has lie as well too. Trust me you don't want a relationship full of lies.

Jodi - posted on 04/24/2015

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Uh, he lied to you get into your pants. I wouldn't trust him either. And these weren't just little white lies. They were big fat blatant lies. No way would I ever trust him again - his motives weren't in any way honourable. Do NOT plan on settling down or in any way moving in with this man. I'd even be questioning whether any relationship is wise.

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