Nikki - posted on 08/22/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )
i have been meeting with my daughters father for the last two weeks so that he and my daughter can start to get to know each other and start a relationship together. Mind you she will be two years ild in october and he has never been involved in her life until now. Since we have started meeting my daughters behavioral ways and personality has changed drastically in the last two weeks to where she is afraid of everything and is constantly afraid that i am going to leave her even though she has never been left alone with him. the last few times that we have met he has been trying to fore her into calling him daddy or dada and he wants me to call him daddy so that she learns who he is. i am not comfortable forcing my daughter into doing something that she does not want to do.... should he be trying to force her into calling him daddy or dada??? also she has fallen twice during our meetings and he has stepped in front of me and blocks her from coming to me while she is crying saying that he is trying to break the bond that my daughter and i have together and once he forced her to crawl over a table at a restaurant so that she could finally get to me because he wouldn't move out of the way. i got after him and he still decided to do it again the next time that we met together. what should i do about the way that he is going about things because i feel as if he is going about this the wrong way... please help me.