please help ! I am slowly losing it with my 20 yr old son, but cant because my 16 yr old son, is an "on the ball straight "A" GIFTED KID!

Roni - posted on 02/20/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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How do I make this brief? My son that is 20, is still immature and like a very young child... His whole life was basketball and was very talented, then he realized he needed grades also to go to a decent college. He is in his third year of a JC now and he spends 75% of his time writing music and rapping. OH, EXCUSE ME, i forgot to add sleeping, and none of his time up until now on homework
My younger son of course sees my frustration, my complaints to his father that go nowhere, , since he works 6 days a week about 10 to 12 hours a day
Anyway for my older one I still do 95% of the cooking, laundry,give him gas money, and pick up dirty socks and underwear im ashamed to admit.
I am at my wits end! literally! I am so serious, that if he doesnt change, or leave, I just might! Its so very frustrating that my husband doesnt hear my pleas for help but yet my youngest son sees what I go thru everyday, and God forbid I do not want these bad behaviors to trickle down to him!
Please, anyone,
H E L P,

RONI

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