Please help.. I'm a single mom and need advise

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Angela - posted on 09/30/2013

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Hello Ladies,

I'm a single mother for 3.5yrs now i have no kind of help. My daughters father been out the picture since i was pregnant. I was okay i women-ed up and did what i had to do for my daughter. She's 3.5yrs old now and things are getting a little tough. I never wanted to ask for child support because he abandoned us so why chase him down to be involved and help out. I shouldn't have to chase someone to be in their childs life.. well in my opinion.

I never moved or my parents never moved so he knows where we live but just chooses never to come by. Well i apologize there was one incident when she was about one and he happen to drive down my parents street and my daughter was outside so he stopped for about 4minutes to see her and that was the last we seen him. He didn't even leave a number.

My question is would i be egiblie for child support? if so, would we have to go through a long court process? Also, would he gets rights after being absent for almost 4yrs now?

I just don't feel right him being able to come around and my daughter don't even know him. It's a tough situation or me. Please help

Angela - posted on 09/30/2013

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Hello Ladies,
I'm a single mother for 3.5yrs now i have no kind of help. My daughters father been out the picture since i was pregnant. I was okay i women-ed up and did what i had to do for my daughter. She's 3.5yrs old now and things are getting a little tough. I never wanted to ask for child support because he abandoned us so why chase him down to be involved and help out. I shouldn't have to chase someone to be in their childs life.. well in my opinion.
I never moved or my parents never moved so he knows where we live but just chooses never to come by. Well i apologize there was one incident when she was about one and he happen to drive down my parents street and my daughter was outside so he stopped for about 4minutes to see her and that was the last we seen him. He didn't even leave a number.
My question is would i be egiblie for child support? if so, would we have to go through a long court process? Also, would he gets rights after being absent for almost 4yrs now?
I just don't feel right him being able to come around and my daughter don't even know him. It's a tough situation or me. Please help.

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