Please help me!

K.M.Upekha Jayani - posted on 08/16/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My son is 2 years and 10 months old who is going to day care every 5 days of week. As I m a working mom. Weekends I m at home with him.

When he comes from day care he is screaming and throwing everything around a him at home. And he hits me so much. And crying a lot.

I can't understand what I can do. He wasn't the rude child before. Now he changed a lot.But I bear his everything because I know he hurts from there so much otherwise he is not behaving like that. But when I am at home he is very pleasant happy boy. No rude behaviour.

Please dear friends let me know what I can do for him to make his self nicely. As a mom do I make some mistakes to him for sending day care.....?........ I m in a miserable position please advice me what can do for preventing this matter....

Thank you dear friends!

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Michelle - posted on 08/16/2016

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Well, you need to work to provide for your child so you're not making a mistake sending him to daycare.
I would talk to the daycare workers though. He is probably picking up the behaviours from there. It is around this age that they get frustrated though. They don't quite have the vocabulary to express themselves properly.
When he behaves like that, get down to his level, hold his hands and talk calmly to him. Try and calm him down and then talk to him about what he wants.
I know it's hard, I was a single Mum of 2 and they were 1 and 3.5 when I left their Dad. I was also working full time so I have been there. They are now 15 and 12.5 and very well behaved young men. You will get through it, just remember to be calm around him so he knows that he can't get what he wants by having tantrums. They don't call it the terrible two's for nothing.

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K.M.Upekha Jayani - posted on 08/16/2016

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Thank you so much dear "Michelle Waldbillig" , it means a lot to me.

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