Cristine - posted on 03/26/2014 ( 36 moms have responded )
I moved into my boyfriends house after 2 years if dating. My daughter was 7 at the time. My boyfriend was suffering financially after inveasting in a big home. He not only was ignoring my daughter he
Made her feel like she didn't exist . he became very controlling with things in the house ex: lights on, tv, how to load a dishwasher , what to use to wrap certain items like cheese. Why I should use sedan wrap instead of a zip lock. Garbage only in disposal not in pail!!! Quote to my daughter at age 11 , can you help my son do his home work I will pay you? After she did help he told her he wasn't going to give her anything" I pay you with the food you eat.she did not feel comfortable here. Like this was never her home and was unhappy. After he and I got into. A big fight and he called the cops on me because he was loosing control I left. Was out for 2 years but still was seeing him . I moved back in with my daughter in sept. she doesnot want to be here . She says he ruined her kid years and she hates him .she says we will never be a family. She has started writing very sad poems about cutting, suicide etc. I spoke with her concerned she dined it was about her. I now find myself in the middle trying to make him happy and then trying to make her happy. He doesn't understand anything that pertains to her says she is just 14 a teenager!!!!! I am worried and concerned she does not want to live here says she hates him and does not trust him what would you do?