Please someone give me some advise! Im a mommy of a three year old and a 1 year old and by the time my man gets home from work i just dont feel intrested to get intament.what should i do?

Alexandra - posted on 01/16/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Im not sure what my next step should be any idea?

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/16/2013

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Alexandra, I know it's hard to do, I've been there, but the answer is that you need to make the attempt. Certainly not every night, by any means, but you do need to make the attempt.

Does he like "romantic" things? I had the best luck with hubby when I could talk him into taking a hot bath and soaking with me (we have a huge jacuzzi tub), and letting things work their way up from there. It is an effort for me at times, I will admit, even now that the kids are much older (translate that...almost grown), and I still have to remind myself that he doesn't always like to be the initiator, and if he is, he sometimes feels that he is imposing.

Schedule some alone time together. That's the first step. It doesn't need to be anything energetic, just some quiet time together...and then start making out with your man! Before you know it, you will be in the middle of the wild thing, and you'll be glad you did. Actually, you'll even feel more energetic and happier, too!

Hang in there, hon! little ones are demanding!

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Alexandra - posted on 01/17/2013

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Shawnn, thank you so much i will most deffanitly use your advise! great idea! and yes i get tired so easly now lol but im going to try the few things you had told me about.

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