pls ne advice for my 11 yr old girl

Vanessa - posted on 07/20/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My daughter recently went on vacation to portugal with her uncle and his wife etc. 2 see grandma i bought her a book "all about my body" for reading material her uncle recorded her talking to her friends on facetime about blowjobs when they got back uncle told his sister and sister told me of course she had suggestions 2 punish her ughh when i talk 2 her she says i told my friend bout it cuz it was on the book and we were talking now my question should punish her? I of course talked to her and told her theres is a place a time 4 everything and she has ne question she should ask mom and dad am i being too soft

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Vanessa - posted on 07/20/2015

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Thank you sarah for that i did talk to her about it im def gonna get more in depth on the conversation she had with her friend....i asked myself the same damn question if her uncle felt it was so bad why didnt he say ne thing on the spot and why the hell is he recording her and then not wanting to tell me cuz "he doesnt want to get involved" then what was the point ?

Sarah - posted on 07/20/2015

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I agree! I thought oral sex was an urban legend until I was probably around 16! I heard about it but I could not fathom why anyone would do such a thing! Rather than punishment, you need to find out where she learned about such information at 11. Then open the lines of communication about safety, appropriate social media content and sexual activity. BTW what business does the uncle have eavesdropping?

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 07/20/2015

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Considering that the book you gave her would NOT have had information on BLOWJOBS, for crying out loud, you need to have a more in depth talk with her and find out when/how/why she knows, at 11 years old, what the hell the term even means.
To me, this is a SERIOUS indication that some hugely inappropriate behaviour has been happening with your 11 YO. She may be being abused, and it may seem 'normal' behaviour to her, but I guarantee you that an 11 YO would NOT be able to have a comprehensive conversation about blowjobs.

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