PORN, and WOMEN!

Kayliecia - posted on 08/13/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hi Everyone- I married my husband when i was 16 years old, and we have been married for 4 years. We have 2 Beautiful kids together and i wouldn't give them up for anything. Since before i was married we had troubles with porn, or him talking to women, my sister was one and he lied about it and finally told me after we were married. We both have done stuff to each other but i have not done anything and he just keeps on talking/looking at other women. A year ago i put K-9 Web protection on the computer because i wanted to know what he was doing, about 3 weeks ago i seen that he was on adult friend finder and he said he was just looking, i had finally told him enough was enough and i wanted to separate because i though he was talking to other women and seeing that i only had proof that he was on the website i do what i always do and look at the good in him, i said okay well if it happens another time i am definalty gone. Well he has been doing alright however one day i seen him looking at Animation crap of like naked cartoons and stuff. I don't understand? He hasn't been looking or getting on websites. But i think that I've been hurt so much that i just am sick of everything and i just don't care anymore like i think i can be hurt and hurt and i'm starting not to even care about him. I don't know. Just venting i guess..what's everyone else thoughts?

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Roeshell - posted on 08/21/2011

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I would only worry if he was going on to the match making site to meet other people to umm yeah..
it's a natural thing for males to look at porn.

Katherine - posted on 08/19/2011

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I would do some marriage counseling. Obviously he has some sort of addiction.
Do you talk to him about it? I mean say, am I doing something wrong that makes you want to look at other women? I mean if it bothers you that much. I don't think it would bother me unless mine stayed on the computer day and night doing it.

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