Possibilities of a undetected pregnancy

Ms - posted on 09/17/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Hello....my story is very weird.....in late April or around mid May I had unprotected sex. After sex, I noticed that I had a lil bit of the you know what in my vagina. So I showered really good and thought nothing of it. 3 weeks after I expected my period the week I had sex and my period had been wayyy too late. I finally got my period and it wasn't so normal. Extra cramping and light bleeding in which I always flowed extremely heavy. In Late August early September, my belly begin to show as if I were 4-5 months pregnant. Remind u I do have a 9yr old son but my pregnancy was different with him. Anyway, I noticed some weird changes in myself, the cravings, late night and all day eating, week nose, nausea no vomiting, headaches, lower back and pelvic pain, light period bleeding every month, my belly is getting bigger and harder and rounder and I can not sleep on my belly anymore or sit on anything low. I am used to a flabby belly but now I feel flutters and kicks. I get the hiccups a lot and sometimes constipation. But overall my bowels are normal. So I buy a home pregnancy test from Dollar Tree and it was negative. I went to ER and the urine was negative again and the doctor gave me a pelvic exam and said I was normal. Nothing, no infections, No STD, no cancer, just completely normal. So two weeks later I began to bleed lightly again after my period came 3weeks ago, and I went to the ER yesterday 9/16/2013 and told them I know I'm pregnant but I'm having light bleeding and don't know why, so they take my urine, blood and give me an ultrasound and again no sign of a baby, everything came back negative. So before they discharge me I was given another pelvic exam. The doctor says u have a small cyst but no baby is in there. So I said why do I feel kicking and flutters, he said I don't know but the cyst is causing you to bleed a little. I'm not sure why u fuel kicking if there's no baby so I began to cry because I felt like a fool but I'm not going crazy and something just isn't right. So I come home and Google a cyst and I have no symptoms of a cyst. My vagina is sore and I haven't been having sex. I'm peeing more than 4 times in an hour. What the Hell is wrong? So Dr. In the ER said to meet up with a OB/GYN 2-3 days. I'm so disturbed because I'm cramping so bad but there is very light bleeding and doctor said its not a period it's light blood coming from my cyst. I look and feel pregnant. My uterus is sitting up high and my bottom part feels bloated and swollen. My stomach feel tight and is strecthing now starting to itch. I Need answers now because if I do get bigger then I'm probably gonna have a baby.....but I still feel kicking and flutters... and this is everyday now for the past 3weeks. I'm moody and very emotional, these signs are not normally occurring! I'm sure there's a baby because of the kicking and flutters... Smh! So I'm gonna wait and see and still take my prenatal vitamins that I bought last week because I know I have to be pregnant and I can't risk having an unhealthy baby! If there are any woman who has has this problem please tell me what u truthfully feel.

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Jamie - posted on 06/29/2014

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Scott,

I'm in a similar situation only I should be about 40 weeks. What happened with your girl? I'm curious because of what I'm going through.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/28/2014

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And to Scott: Again, if you are not seeing a regularly practicing OB/GYN, there's part of your problem.

If you and GF don't have insurance, does she have any type of assistance? Medicaid?

At any rate, same advice to you. Go to an OB. have panels and scans run there. She may not be pregnant, but could have another condition.

Diana - posted on 09/17/2013

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If the doctor did a pelvic and an ultrasound and said your not pregnant than your not pregnant now that being said i have been getting ovarian cysts for about 10years since my first son was born. you ovarian cysts because your body is producing to many hormones which will also make you very emotional ovarian cysts also hurt and that is the cramping if it ruptures though it won't be little cramps it will. Hurt very bad and gas feels exactly like fetalovement. Sometimes

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Marjoriesylvaince - posted on 05/02/2015

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That's exactly what I'm going trough it's been hell for me 2 sonogram 5 pregnancies test my belly look like 6 months itchy nausea kicking all day sentitive to smell sleep a lot during the day I take my vitamin and be ready

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/28/2014

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Ms. Essence: So, you're essentially saying that you've got all of these symptoms, including visible, and you have not yet been into an OB/GYN? You've only gone to the ER and taken their word?

Good grief. Schedule an appointment with a regularly practicing OB/GYN. Have them run blood panels, and do exams. You probably aren't pregnant, but then again, you could be.

BUT...Tumors, growths and other medical conditions can simulate pregnancy, while indicating a possibly life threatening condition. See a regularly practicing doctor, NOT the ER...They are not "bad" docs, but they don't specialize.

Scott - posted on 01/28/2014

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Im at a lost also. My girlfriend would now be 27 weeks pregnant we've been the the ER and everything and we keep getting the same response that she isn't pregnant until one doctor finally told us she could be carrying the baby in her back but they wont perform an ultrasound without us being insured which I think is BS, but I do understand since they are expensive. But she hasn't had a period she has had spotting her in there very light her stomach is rounding like a pregnancy and hardening and the spotting is light not heavy or dark like a normal menstrual period would be. not to be disgusting or anything. Im just kinda lost and confused Id like to be somewhat prepared but I guess ill just have to wait it out if there are any woman that have experienced this or know anyone that has if they could message me and give me their input or story I would greatly appreciate and share more info. my email is scottyt0911@gmail.com. thank you. it would be GREATLY appreciated!!!

Ms - posted on 09/17/2013

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OK thanks....... but I do not cramp unless I have my period and I don't have gas because if so I would pass it with no problem. I'm just really afraid, I hate going back and forth to the doctors.

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