Possible Miscarriage

Misty Jea' - posted on 11/20/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I conceived my baby between October 9-15, I had an US on November 12 and on November 19 (yesterday). The first US showed a sac but no baby, First Response said I was six weeks, the US Clinic said I was pregnant, but not 6 weeks. I could not wait so I went yesterday and still a sac, but no baby. Nothing. I have had light pink spotting when I wipe and slight cramps. They said I had a miscarriage, but I would feel pain right? I was pregnant in March and one night a flow of blood gushed. I had a D&C, two actually because they did not get it all the first time. I have not seen an OBGYN because my Dr is booked for awhile. After those D&C's, I had to get an US right away. I am praying the baby is "hiding" or I am too early. No sore boobs either time or morning sickness.The first day of my last period was September 29. So to me I would be a around 4 or 5 weeks.This US clinic wants you to be 7 weeks. I am devastated.Can any of you please help me. Should I have something in my sac? To me I am like 4.5 weeks. Conception 9-15 and today is the 20th. Please be honest. Also, I am 37. THANK YOU! Misty

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Sandra - posted on 11/20/2013

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I would not want to give you false hope, but i did have a similar experience and when i returned for a third scan, there was a heartbeat in the sac and i went on to have my son. That was 15 years ago! However i know it can go the other way and it is an empty sac- natures way i am afraid.
If you are 4 -5 weeks pregnant, it may still be a little early. Try to leave it just a bit longer if you can, before having another scan. I would also ask for a second opinion next time you go. Hope it works out for you, i know how you are feeling and its awful.
They didnt really give me a reason why they could find no heartbeat on the first and second occasion but i am sure it was just too early to detect, which is why i advise wait at least 2 weeks if you can.

Michelle - posted on 11/20/2013

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A miscarriage doesn't always have cramps or pain. You'll need to wait a few weeks to get another ultrasound done.

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Misty Jea' - posted on 11/20/2013

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I should go to my OBGYN and pray not another D&C! I can't do it, but.....I have been pregnant 3 times, I terminated my first, I had cervical cancer, then 2 D&C's in April, and now this...... I am under extreme STRESS! Thank you for your responses! Much appreciated!

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