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Victora - posted on 12/09/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Hi i'm not a mom yet but i thought maybe you guys could help me. I'm on the pill and want to have a baby. My husband isn't to sure on it though. Like he wants one. I want to try for one. Lately we have been having unprotected sex. Should i get check?

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Jodi - posted on 12/10/2013

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Nlothing wrong with talking about it :) Just make sure you have his agreement.

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Jodi - posted on 12/09/2013

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It's different for everyone. But don't be having ANY unprotected sex until he actually agrees to it.

Victora - posted on 12/09/2013

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Ya that's true. So what your saying is to talk to him more about it then go from there. If he does end up saying yes to having one. How long after taiing the pill should we try.

[momoftwo] - posted on 12/09/2013

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If he doesn't fully want a family I wouldn't try because that can backfire with him just leaving you with a baby.
You two should probably try talking it out more and if he chooses not to then that's how it's got to be because it has to be the both of you that would want it.
Plus you won't get pregnant on the pill that's why it's called birthcontrol lol it's also not healthy for baby that would be conceived also. It takes a while for it to be out of your system.

Victora - posted on 12/09/2013

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Like i want to start a family. He does but not right now. I dunno how to talk him into it. My pills end on the 18. I read lot's of stuff on it and some people say you can try right after you quit your pills.

[momoftwo] - posted on 12/09/2013

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You should stop taking your pill and wait until you have your first normal period and then try after that. After you stop taking your pill you should start taking prenatal vitamins since you're trying.

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