Pregnancy

Kamoni - posted on 09/23/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Well i went to the docs and told them its possible that im pregnant. Knowing the night i conceived i knew because of the strong feelings me and my love shared. That morning HE actually told me what he did and we were stuck in the bed six hours holding our stomachs and dizzy heads. Curled up!!! If its true i should be 17 weeks today, i feel a bit strange and lots of movement. When i went to the docs for the first time last week, they drew my blood and gave me a urine test. When i got the word that i wasnt pregnant i was flabbergasted!!! Knowing what i knew, she honestly didnt have any sympathy at all... shrugging her shoulders and all! It pissed me off but i took her word.... and of course threw it away! Now i need to know if its just my hormones or what?? My tummy is fuzzy with a prego line and its getting bigger. Help me understand what the hell is going on please? Im confused and so worried :(

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How long ago did you go to the doctor? Are you missing your period as well?

No one here can tell you what the problem is. If you are not pregnant and are missing your periods for 17 weeks you NEED to see your doctor and get a full workup. They should test your blood for a variety of hormone levels and do a pap smear.

17 weeks is well into the 2nd trimester. If you were pregnant, your baby would have a heartbeat and any blood or urine test would show up positive for pregnancy. You should also have had at least 4 prenatal checks by now. There really is no way the docs would have missed a 17 week old fetus.

What did you mean by "HE told me what he did"? Do you mean your lover told you he got you pregnant? There really is no way he could know if any of his sperm fertilized your egg or not.

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At 17 weeks, your lover would not be able to hear the heartbeat without a fetal doppler or ultrasound machine.

I am not sure why your doctor would not do an ultrasound, or at least a sonogram, due to an ovarian cyst or anemia. Those conditions would be unaffected by an ultrasound. While I agree that you do not have any conclusive evidence that you are pregnant, you should still see another doctor because it seems odd that this one would not do a full work up after 3 missed periods.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 09/23/2013

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If you don't agree with the first opinion, get a second.

Just because you have "strong feelings" for someone, and your "love shared" doesn't mean you're pregnant. And your statement of "That morning HE actually told me what he did and we were stuck in the bed six hours holding our stomachs and dizzy heads. Curled up!!!"...makes no sense.

There are lots of symptoms that can mimic pregnancy, as well. Get a second opinion, and if the test is still negative, inquire as to other possible conditions.

Kamoni - posted on 09/23/2013

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I went to the docs on 9/16 because i had been missing my period since my lover told me that i might be pregnant. He actually listens to the heartbeat every night and jumps up in tears! I havent been able to get treatment from the doctor because of this hectic situation im in right now. They didnt do any ultrasounds or anything after i told them i have had a cyst in my ovary as small as a blister and me being anemic doesnt help at all.

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