Mannie - posted on 10/08/2014 ( 14 moms have responded )
hi moms me and my girlfriend had an unplanned pregnancy. I was not happy about it at first, a week of thinking everything through I accepted the change that I am about to experience. however my girlfriend is months currently. we were happy never argue never fought in the first month. until around months she asked me when is her due date, I had to take 3 guesses to get it right because I am not good with numbers. ever since she made that an issue and dumps me saying things are not working between us. she is very irrational, I was also upset because she never wanted me to go to any of her doc appointments and I was interested to go since we found out she was pregnant, specially the gender day. I brought a fight because I really wanted to go. ever since she went to the gender day alone and found out we are having a girl she hated me, and says that she doesn't want me to be in the babys life and that she would not put me in the birth certificate. and she wont let me know if she is in labor. are this threats real? I responded by saying that we will do a paternity test after baby is born and we are not talking now but we live in the same apartment.