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Sinead - posted on 05/09/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Hi,
I'm 19 and I'm 6 months and 3 weeks pregnant and my partner left me. We've been together for the past 4 years, and I just don't know what to do anymore, I'm finding things extremely hard for the past couple of weeks, none of my family live around and we have the same circle of friends, so I don't go out anymore, he's always there and its to hard to face him. I really just don't know what to do anymore, I'm completely broken hearted, this guy means the world to me.

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Jodi - posted on 05/09/2015

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You can't force someone to love you. If he doesn't want to be with you, you are going to have to learn to accept that. This is a big reason I never recommend such young couples to start planning a family.

You CAN, however, force him to step up and take responsibility for the new life he helped to create. You need to make sure you file for custody, visitation and child support for the child when it is born. He has an obligation to assist in financially raising this child.

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